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she wasn’t totally undisciplined。“You made it to this conference。 You arrive promptly at each session; and you are neatly dressed。” She almost smiled; and then I added; “There’s probably a reason why you haven’t been able to lose weight or get your home in order。”
Later; I found out there was a big reason。 She was widowed a year before。 Her husband had been an alcoholic who verbally abused her all 24 years of their marriage。 It never occurred to her that a poor self…image was keeping her from effecting positive changes。 With this realization; she took the next step in bringing more discipline to her life — by going for counseling。 Meanwhile; some of her friends offered to e to her house and help her clean up; putting her even more solidly on a habit…changing course。
Mind over matter I remember my school days and Mom’s regular reveille, “Time to get up!” I agonized in bed until the last minute and ran my mother’s patience short。 Then I went away to college and had to get myself up。 Finally; tired of waging war with waking; I decided that when the alarm rang; I would rise — just because I wanted to; regardless of how I felt。 It has worked ever since。
In Feeling Good; The New Mood Therapy David D。 Burns; ; writes, “Motivation does not e first; action does!You have to prime the pump。 If you wait until you’re ‘in the mood;’ you may wait forever。” When you don’t feel like doing something; you tend to put it off; but it’s often after we get involved in a task that we bee highly motivated。
Discipline is habit…forming。 A little leads to more; because the benefits prove increasingly desirable。 When you finally overe inertia; you will feel better all around。 We are at our best —physically and mentally—when we are disciplined。
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